“May you move a thousand times,” runs an old Irish curse. This saying captures the dread of relocating felt by many new household owners. But wait, isn’t the new place the fulfillment of at least some of your dreams? Shouldn’t you be looking forward to moving?

The problem is: anxiety. This problem is often exacerbated by delays or confusion on the part of the buyer, the sellers, the boards, the lawyers, or the contractors. But basically, the problem is that of anticipating the feeling of being a stranger in a strange land, possibly not even knowing exactly where your toothbrush or pills are going to be found. Also, you’re over budget.

So here are a few solutions: Make it a habit to visit the new place. Have dinner in the neighborhood restaurants. If you are extraverted enough, strike up conversations with some of the new neighbors. Maybe talk about how reasonable prices are, at a restaurant you’ve visited. Find out who the celebrities are who live nearby. If they’re comfortable here, why not you?

When packing, set aside a box containing all the items you will need during your first night in your new home. Having easy access to things like toiletries, medication, and a clean set of clothes can greatly diminish the stress of your move by eliminating any chances of needing to frantically open box after box searching for your toothbrush.

In other words, make the place a part-time home even before you get there. You may even find your present place seeming kind of dull.

Still feeling anxious? Give us a call!

Phone: (718) 665-5000

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